The original poster (OP) is reaching out to the online community for advice after being shunned by a group of people.
His Former Classmate Has Cancer
His former classmate Brad, 26, has cancer and was diagnosed with a rare form of Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma.
They Are Collecting Donations
Brad’s family set up a GoFundMe account to help cover the cost of his treatment. They are hoping to raise $50,000.
Brad Was His High School Bully
The problem is that OP and Brad have never had a good relationship. In fact, Brad was OP’s high school bully. Brad used to treat him very badly. He would constantly make fun of his weight and call him offensive nicknames.
He is Indifferent
OP says he doesn’t feel good about learning that Brad has cancer, but he also didn’t shed any tears.
A Former Classmate Messaged Him
A few days ago, a girl named Anna added her former classmates to a messenger chat group. She sent everyone the GoFundMe link and asked that everyone donate whatever they could, even if it was a small amount.
She’s Tracking Who is Giving
Anna also said to send her a thumbs up after people have contributed, so she was tracking who was giving. OP says that almost everyone in the group gave a donation except for him.
She Asked Why He Didn’t Donate
Anna, of course, noticed this and sent him a message to ask if he had seen the link and why he didn’t donate. OP decided to tell her that he didn’t plan to donate because of how Brad treated him in high school.
They Told Him to Grow Up
Other people in the group also found out, and they and Anna told OP to stop acting like a jerk and to grow up. They said the things that happened in high school were in the past, and he needed to move on.
He Left the Group
OP decided to leave the group because he didn’t want to argue with them. He says that none of them stood up for him while Brad was bullying him in high school, and most of them actually laughed at his dumb jokes. OP is reaching out to the online readers because he wonders if he is holding on to a grudge that he should let go of and donate to Brad’s cancer treatment.
The Readers Respond
Many readers focused more on the fact that donating to any cause is supposed to be a voluntary action.
“It’s called a donations because it’s voluntary. They’re trying to bully OP into donating to his childhood bully’s treatment.”
“When did it become OK to call out a person in public for not donating to some cause? That’s, to me, the gross behavior here, was she trying to shame you into donating? Even if he was the nicest guy on the planet, you are in no way obligated to donate money if you don’t want to.”
“Yeah, they’re still behaving like bullies. Doesn’t seem like much has changed.“
It’s None of Her Business
Some readers said there was no need for OP to explain himself in the first place.
“To the OP, by explaining yourself, you were trying to seek their approval and anytime you try to seek someone’s approval or agreement, that makes you an easy target. Do you think everybody donated? No. People just quietly removed themselves from the group, and some probably even blocked Anna.”
“She said “donate what you can” and OP decided they couldn’t donate anything. Shaming someone for not donating to something is cruel. It’s OPs money, and whether she agreed with OPs reasoning doesn’t mean it’s her decision.”
People Who Were Bullied Don’t Forget
Many also agreed with OP that bullying can have lasting effects.
“Bullying is as ‘past’ as the victim thinks it is. Which usually and definitely in this case, means it isn’t ‘past’ at all. And now those who validated Brad’s bullying are doing it again. I can name every single person who made my childhood bad with bullying.”
“As a victim of bullying, I get you. Mine was many years ago, but you never forget.”
The Most Unfunny Comedians According to the Internet
Comedians are brave people who come into the spotlight with the sole purpose of making us laugh. Not every joke can be a hit, but they will lose their following if they repeatedly fail to entertain. Comedians are no different than actors when it comes to slip-ups and controversy. It’s not always their jokes that make them unfunny. According to a popular online forum, here are the top-voted answers to the most unfunny comedians.
The Most Unfunny Comedians According to the Internet
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She Was Excited to Have an Empty Seat Beside Her on the Plane for Room to Stretch and Rest. Flight Attendant Moved Another Passenger to the Empty Seat So a Baby Could Sit Beside the Mom. She Thought the Mom Acted Entitled. Was She Wrong?
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She’s 34 Weeks Pregnant and Parked in a Spot for Veterans and Expectant Mothers. A Veteran Yelled at Her For Taking the Spot. Should He Get Priority?
She is a 19-year-old pregnant woman and says her pregnancy has been rough. As a result, she avoids going out much lately but couldn’t avoid a trip to the grocery store because her husband couldn’t go.